Jun 26 2009

Mortality…

Published by Charlie Wear under My Life

There’s no getting around it. All of us will die. Then why is the death of someone like Michael Jackson, or for that matter, Farah Fawcett, uh, disturbing. When I was in my 20s and 30s, I can guarantee that I rarely thought about my own mortality. However, as I push hard for the 60s, the ability to ignore reality becomes less and less. I wrote this last year:

A few years ago the Tim McGraw song, Live Like You Are Dying was on an endless loop on my ipod. I was struck with the realization of my own mortality. The realization moved me to make choices to fashion a life that was more in line with the idea that our days are numbered. Of course, people, young and old, die every day. Some have made a big ripple in this pond we live in, some have not. I guess what is more important for me, at this stage of my life, is that I live each day in a state of contentment. That I appreciate the daily blessings I receive and that I pass them to those around me.

Today I am living the life that I was trying to fashion, and surprise, surprise, I think my daily contentment quotient has increased. For me this has come as I have attempted to take life in day-sized chunks, not borrowing too much trouble from the future and letting past troubles fade. Today I’ll say a prayer for the children and family of Michael Jackson and for the loved ones of Farah Fawcett.

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Jun 20 2009

Visiting a friend in Santa Maria…

Published by Charlie Wear under My Life

This weekend I am spending Saturday and part of Sunday with a friend who is in ministry in Santa Maria, CA. We are working on his websites and Sunday morning I will be preaching at his church, Freedom Christian Fellowship at 12:30 p.m. It’s kind of unusual that I get a chance to preach, but he invited me, so there you are…

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Jun 16 2009

I have decided…

Published by Charlie Wear under Uncategorized

1. I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.
2. Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.
3. The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
No turning back, no turning back.
4. Though none go with me, still I will follow;
Though none go with me, still I will follow;
Though none go with me, still I will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.
5. Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
No turning back, no turning back.
via: http://library.timelesstruths.org/music/I_Have_Decided_to_Follow_Jesus/

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Jun 04 2009

How do we start to follow Jesus?

Published by Charlie Wear under Following Jesus

I have had the privilege of giving some “altar calls” in my life. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? You are talking to a group of people, some who are not professed Christians, and at the end of your message you invite those who are not followers of Jesus to “accept Christ as their personal savior.”
I admit I did most of these invitations before I found out from my enlightened brothers that “decisions are not disciples.” Still I always felt pretty good when there was a response to the invitation I had made.
It’s been a while since I gave my last invitation, and over the years I have had plenty of time to reflect on the consequences and results of those “decisions” that were made by those who responded to the invitation.
The truth is, I have no way to measure the results. I ran across this quote from Greg Laurie on his blog:

I will be the first to admit that not all of the people who come forward are becoming Christians. Some come and never take the next steps in following Christ.

But I must tell you, many come and go forward spiritually and have their lives transformed by Jesus Christ. We have seen so many lives turned around, families saved, destructive lifestyles turned from, and the list goes on. Many are in ministry today as well, serving in the mission field or becoming pastors of churches.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to start a fight about predestination or “once saved, always saved.” Those issues are “above my pay grade.” I now think that much of the activity we engage in to encourage people to follow Jesus is counter-productive, whether it be small group fellowships, discipleship classes, church services, 6-part messages, or for that matter, “evangelistic crusades.”
However, I will never forget the Friday night several years ago when I walked forward with my son at a Promise Keeper’s event in Los Angeles, and kneeled along with him as he prayed a prayer of commitment.
Like every journey in life, it seems that that there must be some first steps. I don’t think it is necessary to pray a prayer. And hopefully, like some of the friends of Bill, we don’t have to hit rock bottom before we acknowledge that there is a higher power. In my life, I wish there had been someone who had said, “I am following Jesus, here is what I have learned, why don’t you join me?” There are many who assisted and tangentially guided me on my journey, but in many ways it has seemed like a kind of solitary journey.
I cannot say that the “church” did much more than attempt to make me a good “member.” While a follower of Jesus could be a good church member, it is not really necessary for a good church member to be a follower of Jesus. I hope I will be a better mentor to my six-year old than I was to my older children. I mean there is always hope that we will get better as we age, right?

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May 17 2009

Maintaining an even strain

Published by Charlie Wear under Church Starting, My Life

There was a time period when I could not get enough material to read on the subject of church planting and church growth. I think it is fair to say that in the early 90s I read just about every book in print on the subject. I also attended conferences and seminars and listened to audio tapes by the hour. That probably would have made a lot of sense if I had been a professional “minister” at the time. However, I was not. I was a sole practitioner attorney making a living helping injured workers process their claims.

But, man, was I ever loving learning about this whole other field that I had never heard of until 1989. One recording that I listened to over and over was John Wimber (one of the foremost practitioners of church growth and church planting) and Bob Fulton (John’s brother-in-law and partner in ministry) talking about the difference between starters, organizers and maintainers.

This particular understanding of the differences between pioneers and settlers, starters and organizers rang true with my own personal experience. You see, when life settles into a maintenance mode, things aren’t getting a whole lot better, nor are they getting a whole lot worse; same old, same old; I seem to get into a massive funk and begin to focus all of my energies on breaking out of what feels to me like a horrible rut.

If you have followed my adventures since about 2006, when I “quit a good job in the city, working for the man every night and day” and moved my family cross-country to Florida, then you know that if I can’t find a good crisis to fight my way out of, I will, no doubt create one.

These days on the “ministry” front, and since my adventure in Florida, I don’t have a lot of excitement. One highlight for me came last month when I went to the first day of the Origins/Catalyst West conference in Irvine. I got to meet and spend some time with Dan Kimball, a frequent Next-Wave contributor over the years, a cutting emerging church practitioner (Vintage Faith Church, Santa Cruz) and author, and one of the founders of the Origins Network. It was great spending some time with him and getting to hear his heart for “reclaiming” evangelism. I also got to hear Erwin McManus speak in person for the first time, and he was great, inspirational, insightful and funny.

I was there because Kimball, McManus and Pastor Dave Gibbons of New Song Church in Irvine were launching a new network called Origins. You see, I couldn’t miss the opportunity to be nearby for the launch of something new. In the aftermath of that day I fell into a discussion about the involvement of women in leadership over at Jonathan Brink’s blog. Over the years a complaint arises from time to time that there are not enough women contributing to Next-Wave. So I made a concerted effort to get some material from women. Didn’t really get very far except to get some enthusiastic emails from some women who said they would send me some material.

We are ten years in on the Next-Wave journey, and for me it feels a little bit like maintenance. I am looking for the next big thing, that is part of my personality and, I think, part of my calling. Of course, for editor Scott Bane, his involvement is in the “starting” phase, so I think that helps to keep things fresh for me.

I really can’t get very excited about “joining” an existing church. It feels so much like going back to where I have already been. However, if some young person wanted to start a “missional” church in my city, I would be there with bells on. In my day job I am caught up in starting and building a law practice for the second time in my career, and that has its excitement for sure.

When things are in maintenance mode, for me, it feels like the wilderness. But show me some smoking shrubbery and I am Johnny-on-the-spot. (Oblique reference to Moses, you got it, right?) I am trying to avoid praying a dangerous prayer: “Lord, send me on an adventure, for the sake of your kingdom.” That is one of those prayers that God always answers, with some very surprising results!

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May 01 2009

My daughter sings in church on Easter…

Published by Charlie Wear under Church


I’m very proud of her…

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Apr 26 2009

Carlos Awakens the Hero Within (from Mosaic Films)

Published by Charlie Wear under Following Jesus

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Apr 24 2009

Erwin McManus on Destiny…

Published by Charlie Wear under My Life

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Apr 22 2009

The Power of Transformative Preaching

Published by Charlie Wear under Missional Church, My Life

I confess, I am a refugee from “normal” church. I haven’t attended regular church services for some time. I’m not against regular services, you understand, I just haven’t been able to connect for a number of years now. One of the main reasons for this is that I am easily bored. 

I’m not enamored of what I will call “packaged” preaching. You know, “Three Steps for a Better You,” “Finding your Ministry Purpose,” or “Getting Debt-Free through Stewardship.” I’m not saying that these sermons aren’t helpful to many. They just don’t do it for me.

In the early 80s I faithfully attended services at a church where the second the pastor began to preach I was overcome by incipient narcolepsy, at least that’s what I think it was. My wife was constantly poking me to wake me up, stop my snoring, and to wipe the drool off my chin. In the mid-90s I was an accidental pastor and saw the results of my own preaching! I could put ‘em to sleep with the best!

I don’t believe that preaching is dead, I just believe that “good” preaching is hard to find. This is why Monday was such a good day for me. Next-Wave editor, Scott Bane, is a church planting pastor in Indiana. He is not preaching on a regular basis yet, but over the last couple of weeks he was in South Africa preaching at a “camp” meeting. He sent me the links to his talks on Monday. And I listened to all of them in one day, as I traveled from here to there.

Wow! Now that is what I have been missing, powerful Biblical preaching that proclaims the truth about God. I think I may have been born again, again! Of course, what do I expect? When the Holy Spirit is communicating the heart of God through a person that is yielded to be a conduit to His voice, the preaching has the power to change lives. That’s the kind of preaching we need more of, that’s for sure.

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Apr 17 2009

Permaculture, hmmm…

Published by Charlie Wear under Emerging Church

If I want to keep my finger on the pulse of “trends to watch” in the emerging church, all I need to do is check in on Andrew Jones blog, or his twitter feed. He’s posted an insightful review of an Emerging Church panel discussion at the Christian Book Expo.

How does he keep up on all of this stuff whilst travelling through Europe with his family in a converted truck-RV? I wish I knew!

Andrew twitters about permaculture, and I have to go to wikipedia to get a definition:

Permaculture is an approach to designing human settlements and perennial agricultural systems that mimic the relationships found in the natural ecologies. It was first developed by Australians Bill Mollison and David Holmgren and their associates during the 1970s in a series of publications. The word permaculture is a portmanteau of permanent agriculture, as well as permanent culture.

OooooooKaaaaay…but why is this important? What are the implications?

From the wikipedia article:

Modern permaculture is a system design tool. It is a way of:

  • looking at a whole system or problem;
  • observing how the parts relate;
  • planning to mend sick systems by applying ideas learnt from long-term sustainable working systems;
  • seeing connections between key parts.

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