Archive for June, 2009

Jun 26 2009

Mortality…

Published by Charlie Wear under My Life

There’s no getting around it. All of us will die. Then why is the death of someone like Michael Jackson, or for that matter, Farah Fawcett, uh, disturbing. When I was in my 20s and 30s, I can guarantee that I rarely thought about my own mortality. However, as I push hard for the 60s, the ability to ignore reality becomes less and less. I wrote this last year:

A few years ago the Tim McGraw song, Live Like You Are Dying was on an endless loop on my ipod. I was struck with the realization of my own mortality. The realization moved me to make choices to fashion a life that was more in line with the idea that our days are numbered. Of course, people, young and old, die every day. Some have made a big ripple in this pond we live in, some have not. I guess what is more important for me, at this stage of my life, is that I live each day in a state of contentment. That I appreciate the daily blessings I receive and that I pass them to those around me.

Today I am living the life that I was trying to fashion, and surprise, surprise, I think my daily contentment quotient has increased. For me this has come as I have attempted to take life in day-sized chunks, not borrowing too much trouble from the future and letting past troubles fade. Today I’ll say a prayer for the children and family of Michael Jackson and for the loved ones of Farah Fawcett.

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Jun 20 2009

Visiting a friend in Santa Maria…

Published by Charlie Wear under My Life

This weekend I am spending Saturday and part of Sunday with a friend who is in ministry in Santa Maria, CA. We are working on his websites and Sunday morning I will be preaching at his church, Freedom Christian Fellowship at 12:30 p.m. It’s kind of unusual that I get a chance to preach, but he invited me, so there you are…

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Jun 16 2009

I have decided…

Published by Charlie Wear under Uncategorized

1. I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.
2. Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
Though I may wonder, I still will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.
3. The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
No turning back, no turning back.
4. Though none go with me, still I will follow;
Though none go with me, still I will follow;
Though none go with me, still I will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.
5. Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
No turning back, no turning back.
via: http://library.timelesstruths.org/music/I_Have_Decided_to_Follow_Jesus/

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Jun 04 2009

How do we start to follow Jesus?

Published by Charlie Wear under Following Jesus

I have had the privilege of giving some “altar calls” in my life. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? You are talking to a group of people, some who are not professed Christians, and at the end of your message you invite those who are not followers of Jesus to “accept Christ as their personal savior.”
I admit I did most of these invitations before I found out from my enlightened brothers that “decisions are not disciples.” Still I always felt pretty good when there was a response to the invitation I had made.
It’s been a while since I gave my last invitation, and over the years I have had plenty of time to reflect on the consequences and results of those “decisions” that were made by those who responded to the invitation.
The truth is, I have no way to measure the results. I ran across this quote from Greg Laurie on his blog:

I will be the first to admit that not all of the people who come forward are becoming Christians. Some come and never take the next steps in following Christ.

But I must tell you, many come and go forward spiritually and have their lives transformed by Jesus Christ. We have seen so many lives turned around, families saved, destructive lifestyles turned from, and the list goes on. Many are in ministry today as well, serving in the mission field or becoming pastors of churches.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to start a fight about predestination or “once saved, always saved.” Those issues are “above my pay grade.” I now think that much of the activity we engage in to encourage people to follow Jesus is counter-productive, whether it be small group fellowships, discipleship classes, church services, 6-part messages, or for that matter, “evangelistic crusades.”
However, I will never forget the Friday night several years ago when I walked forward with my son at a Promise Keeper’s event in Los Angeles, and kneeled along with him as he prayed a prayer of commitment.
Like every journey in life, it seems that that there must be some first steps. I don’t think it is necessary to pray a prayer. And hopefully, like some of the friends of Bill, we don’t have to hit rock bottom before we acknowledge that there is a higher power. In my life, I wish there had been someone who had said, “I am following Jesus, here is what I have learned, why don’t you join me?” There are many who assisted and tangentially guided me on my journey, but in many ways it has seemed like a kind of solitary journey.
I cannot say that the “church” did much more than attempt to make me a good “member.” While a follower of Jesus could be a good church member, it is not really necessary for a good church member to be a follower of Jesus. I hope I will be a better mentor to my six-year old than I was to my older children. I mean there is always hope that we will get better as we age, right?

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